豆瓣网友:Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long. Not even yourself.大家都不了解,女人决定结婚生子时,她的生命一方面开始了,另一方面却结束了。生活开始充斥琐碎的事,你停下脚步,呆在原地,好让你的孩子能够任意来去。他们离开后,你的生活就空了。你应该再度向前,但你已忘了如何迈步。因为长久以来,都没有人叫你动。你自己也忘了要动。,Uluç Bayraktar导演对哈扎尔·菲利兹·库库科斯说:"看来,这个世界是有无数面的不规则体。"我最深爱的人伤我却是最深,叫人无助的深刻。――《最深爱的人伤我最深》张雨生人世间的事情莫过于此,用一个瞬间来喜欢一样东西,然后用多年时间来慢慢拷问自己为什么会喜欢这样东西。然而要男人爱你的心,心甘情愿与你在一起的心是很难的。不是男人没心了,是这个现实的社会,让相爱的人都离真心远了,我们总在算计爱情得失的心,却忘记了真心。